Fibro and Work

Having Fibro and trying to complete ESA / PIP  questionnaires is like asking a blind man to play darts (Sorry if that analogy upsets anyone) BUT it sort of fits. You see, Stress increases the symptoms, So a difficult day (as practically all of them are) can go from just “difficult” to absolutely devastating in a…

Feeling sorry for myself

I’m the person who constantly  gives great advice, who is the go to person for problem solving,  be it financial,  business, staff, personal, relationships etc. I’m grounded and straight talking. I’ve a lot of experience  in many ways,  with over a decade of self-sufficiency that made me strong and confident beyond what I already had.…

HOW is this possible?

I promise I wont do political rants on here (as if I started, I don’t think I’d stop) BUT this has got to be said. David Cameron & his wife are both Millionaires in their own rights. They both come from extremely wealthy families (of millionaires) also. However, when their son was sadly born with a…

Sorry its an angry one

(They will get better) I am not always angry – BUT you see, this is my outlet for the real me…. The Fading Ghost…. The other me (The “before Spoons”, behind a mask, me) has had a great day, sorted out some charity’s problems over the phone (some advice I called them with – I…

Panic hits!

Its 22.08 & I have an “energy moment” – If you have a chronic illness, you will understand (especially if its a Fibro / CFS type illness). Every now & then it hits you – A moment of – “Bloody hell, I can move” – SO I am on my PC, desperately creating Flyers for…